365 & counting…
I guess nobody including myself thought I’d still be living in Japan in 2011. Time really flies and for the last year it’s gone by almost without a trace. It’s so true that times flies when you are having fun.
If someone had told me 4 years ago I’d end up here I would have probably laughed in their face.
For One, My man and I could not be any more opposite and Two my man HATES “Ritzy” places, so you could imagine my surprise when he suggested going here to celebrate our 1st anniversary. However sometimes, you’ll do anything to please the one you love and I know that from experience. So here we are Wining & Dining and discussing our future.
I realise now…It was all for me
And always has been all about me and what I want and what I need…
Slowly I’m beginning to realise…
The White Wine
White wine & Vintage DIOR sunnies
Never have I met anyone with a mind, soul and passion as I have in my man. And I have never felt like he is in anyway intimidated by my intelligence, independence or wealth. I always laugh at our differences… I love shopping, he hates it. I love consuming, he hates capitalism. I love chit chat, he despises meaningless banter.
The fact that we are like ying & yang was ever more present on that day. And I’m sure It will continue to prove as our great divide but will it conquer us. That is the question in any relationship. Can you work through the hard times to make the good times more worthwhile or like 50% of marriages fail because the stimulation disappears.
No one has the answers and least of all me. However one thing I know for sure is that I never give up. And once I have my heart is set on something/one I tend to sink my teeth and not let go.
On that night our reason & purpose was defined*
heart to heart
mind to mind
soul to soul